Interviewing the GM of Taj West End about weddings

The Taj West End is a lush property in the middle of bustling Bangalore. The landmark hotel located next to the Golf Club and across the Turf Club offers the real flavor of Bangalore with gardens being intrinsic to the overall experience. In co-ordination with WeddingSutra.com, Divya Chauhan and Vithika Agarwal spoke to Sanjay Sood, General Manager of Taj West End to know more about the property and how they create events to delight couples!

What makes the Taj West End so special?
The history, heritage and the whole environ the landmark hotel is set in. It’s a private sanctuary, in the middle of the city, a place where you can unwind in the natural environment. It reminds people of the old Bangalore, the green Bangalore. There are enough venues within the hotel where guests can have different experiences without stepping out- like the spa or nature works. But most importantly, it has an ambience where you feel totally relaxed.

How many weddings do you host every year?
On an average we host around six weddings a month, so about sixty to seventy weddings a year. The weddings range from small gatherings to grand scale ones (maximum 500 hundred guests). The most preferred venues are the Ballroom and the Princess of Wales lawns.

Tell us more about your clientele
A lot are from Bangalore, many NRIs and some from other places all over India. Usually it is the people who have some kind of relationship with Bangalore. Those who want to renew their emotional connect with the city and explore the heritage. Another factor that gives us the edge is our long innings. The parents who got married here want their children to start their married life here as well– carrying the good luck forward.

Food and cuisine, how is the offering from The Taj different?
Taj is associated with royalty so our menu and cuisine integrate this philosophy. We offer a wide variety depending upon the theme. The most popular are the cuisine of the royal palaces. For weddings, there are a lot of region-specific requirements and must-haves and must-avoids. So our chefs make all the efforts to keep every single requirement of a client into consideration.

What are the other services that Taj offers apart from catering?
We have a dedicated team which arranges for interactions with other vendors like local designers, wedding planners, mehendi artists, band organizers. We also plan tours, activities outside the hotel if the guests have free time on hand. So we try to give them an experience, rather than just a comfortable stay.

What budget should clients keep in mind if they’re planning a wedding at a premier property like yours?
It depends on the season and the vendors you have tied up with. But typically a room costs between 250 -350 USD and catering ranges between 50-100 and sometimes 150 USD. But we develop customized packages. The sales team sits with the client, understands their requirements to build a package to suit their budget. Clients should get in touch with us, depending on when they are getting married. Usually, December weddings are booked almost a year in advance.

Do the clients have to work with your preferred vendors or they can have their own set of people?
Of course they can. We do not interfere with that process. But any new vendors have to agree to the rules and regulations especially while putting up the decorations, flowers, fabrics etc. We make sure that they work in tandem with our team so there is no miscommunication

Do you have restrictions like no-baraat on the premises?
Yes, we do because we do not want our other guests to be disturbed. We do help in organization of the baraat outside the hotel. And also provide carriages, cars or other assistance for the groom and party when they enter the premises to reach the specific lawn or venue.

You have to do a balancing act between business clients and wedding clients. How do you manage the delicate balance?

Some people have a misconception (from the look and feel of our property) that we are not a business hotel. But in reality, we have a lot of business travelers who prefer to stay in a quaint place like ours. We keep two blocks reserved for the corporate clients so that they can stay peacefully and have their privacy even when a wedding is going on in the premises.

We have talked a lot about the property, now we’d like to know a little about you.

Well, it has been a fantastic journey—I’ve been with the Taj for 26 years. I’ve been married since 16 years and I have two beautiful daughters. In my long stint with the group, I have worked all over India- Kolkata, Bombay, Chennai and now Bangalore. The best part of working with The Taj is that you develop a lifelong relationship with the organization.

Photographs courtesy of Joseph Cairns, joseph@depthoffield.co.in

Our guide to perfect wedding gifts

With the wedding season round the corner the one question that is on everybody’s mind is “what should I gift the couple?” Sometimes in Indian weddings, customs dictate what and how much you gift during the wedding, but even if that’s the case make sure you do a little something extra for the couple to make them feel special.

If you are indecisive about what to take as a present for the next wedding you attend, these questions should help you before you go on the shopping trip:

What is your relationship with the bride and/or the groom? – Are you related, close friends, acquaintances or colleagues?

What are they like? – Whilst the answer to this question will depend on how well you know the couple, it would help if you had a general idea of their likes and dislikes. Do they love partying? Are they travel bugs? Are they romantic? Do they have it all?

What kind of gift will add value to their lives and leave a lasting impression? – Electronics, experiences, traditional gift items, custom made or personalized

How much to spend? – “The excellence of a gift lies in its appropriateness rather than in its value.” The amount you spend on the gift should be based on your relationship with the couple and/or their families as well as your budget.

Notwithstanding, whatever you choose as a present, a bit of creativity and thought will touch their hearts and leave an impression that will last long after the wedding is over.

As wedding planners, we work very closely with the bride, the groom and their families. We have interviewed many couples to identify what they would like as a wedding gift and here are some of the top answers:

Money – Yes it’s true! Money is the number one gift that most young couples want. It gives them the freedom and luxury to use it as they see fit. It could be used for the honeymoon at their dream destination, down payment for a house, a car or something else that might be on their list.

Charity – Forgoing lavish and extravagant wedding gifts, Prince William and Kate Middleton set up a charitable gift fund in honor of their wedding. More and more couples are choosing donations to their favorite charities over traditional wedding gifts. When all or a portion of the wedding gifts are donations to worthwhile causes, the bride and groom are able to share the happiness of their wedding day with those in need and help make a difference. We can’t think of a better way to start a new life that to receive heartfelt blessings.

Gold/silver – Among Indians Gold and Silver are considered auspicious as a wedding gift. A coin, some jewelry or an idol of a god especially Lord Ganesha are some of the most popular choices for weddings

Honeymoon package – Newly married couples would love to go on a honeymoon. Unfortunately, not all can afford a pricey tour package. Usually gifted by a close family member a honeymoon package makes for a wonderful wedding gift, and has always topped the list of wedding gift ideas.

Some of our favorite gifts are –

Photo Frames. One of the most popular gifts here’s how to do it with a twist. We have gifted the wedding invitation framed as gift and it has been really well received. We also like to personalize a photo frame based on the personalities of the couple. Thanks to designer fotoframes that this is possible. www.facebook.com/DefignerFotoframes/photos_stream

Watches. Indian themed watches from Titan make for a great gift. We are fans of the Raaga and Bandhan collection

Gift Baskets. Gift baskets are one of our favorites to give because we can pick out everything individually, and there’s nothing more delightful than getting a basket full of themed goodies to pick through. We create a gift basket full of personalized stationery for the couple. We usually put in thank you notes so that the couples have them ready to thank all their guests for the presents, personalized gift tags, post it notes and some note cards. www.templetreepaper.com is a favourite place for us to order our stationery.

  

While gifting art can be quiet risky we have never gone wrong with these one of kind kettles from www.artbyaarohi.com

Cheers. With a selection of Indian and foreign wines now available in India they make for a wonderful gift. Add a bottle of wine with wine glasses that you plan on gifting. Complete the gift with some crackers and cheese. www.fwmclub.com is a great place to buy some fine wines in India

Gift an experience. These days many couples have been living on their own, so they don’t need to set up an entire household—in fact, they may be merging two. Give them a special treat they can enjoy together like a cooking / bartending class, a dinner at their favorite restaurant, a couple’s massage or dance classes www.excitinglives.com has some pretty cool selections in most major Indian cities

Bath Products. Towels can be an incredibly useful and inexpensive wedding gift. Add some bubble bath or some beautiful soaps to make the gift complete. Personalize it with monograms. www.yebhi.com has a good0 selection of towels to choose from

A little practical advice that makes the gift a complete package –

  • Ensure you have the price tag removed from the gift
  • Make sure you put a gift card on the package as well as inside the gift. It is really sad when you go through all the trouble of buying a beautiful gift and the couple have no idea whom to thank.
  • It is always a good idea to send the gift to the couple’s house. We have all heard innumerable stories about gifts getting lost at the venue since there is no security or getting damaged in transit. But for any reason that you have to take your gifts to the venue especially if it is money write an account payee check to ensure that the couple receives your good wishes.

Gifts have such an amazing feel good factor about them that the experience of unwrapping and finding what’s inside the package is exciting. Some gifts leave an impression on our hearts long after the wedding is over.

We would love to hear from you. Tell us about your favorite gift stories from your wedding or something that you gifted to a couple and why was that gift was so unique.

The Taj Falaknuma Palace Hotel, Hyderabad

We haven’t written about palace weddings in the past mainly for the fear of sounding clichéd. After all, everything that needs to be said about the grandeur of a wedding in a beautiful palace has been said, right? We thought so too but all that changed when we visited the breathtaking Taj Falaknuma Palace Hotel in the beautiful city of Hyderabad. This stately experience compelled us to write about this magnificent property where we felt like personal guests of the Nizam himself.

Taj Falaknuma is more than just a luxury hotel – it is a piece of history. It has been meticulously restored and is impeccably manned by the legendry service of the Taj Group of hotels. The Palace in its various moods is mystical and beautiful and a treat for all your senses.

Having experienced a number of palatial weddings in Rajasthan, we were pleasantly surprised to be treated to similar delights in the southern city of Hyderabad .It is amongst the finest palaces in India and as the name suggests, it truly is a mirror in the sky with a panoramic view of this splendid city. This magnificent property, with a rare blend of Italian and Tudor architecture can hold its own amongst the most luxurious palace hotels of the world.

The Falaknuma palace is a perfect place to create a lifetime of memories. You can choose to celebrate your big birthday with a close set of friends or host a lavish wedding. The one thing the palace guarantees is an experience, for you and your guests, that won’t be easily forgotten and will leave you craving for more.

Based on our own experience, we have listed a few reasons for you to consider Falaknuma for your next celebration

  1. Hyderabad, as a city, has much to offer culturally and is easily accessible by air, road and train.
  2. This palace with exquisite views and stunning interiors allows you to have a very different ambience for all your events, be it indoors or outdoors
  3. Falaknuma palace is home to some of the finest treasures of the Nizam. With its unique jade collection, to a library housing one of the finest arrays of the Quran, and the largest collection of Venetian Chandeliers are just to name a few. You and your guests will not feel the need to leave the palace gates once you have entered the home of the richest Nawab in the world.
  4. The exceptional service that is synonymous with the Taj group of hotels will ensure a comfortable and memorable stay for you and your guests
  5. Taj Falaknuma Palace allows you to experience the exuberance and lavishness of the life of the Nizam’s and get a taste of the royal splendor.
  6. The palace has a remarkable 101-seat dining hall which is perhaps the largest in the world and provides a grand experience for your guests
  7. The hotel caters to your epicurean palate with its culinary delights through one of its two restaurants or through an exclusive spread prepared for your event
  8. The Jiva spa is voted one of the best in India and we personally vouch for it.

 

A royal experience at the enchanting Taj Falaknuma Palace beckons. With our extensive experience and this magnificent location we can help you create a life time of memories. Please get in touch with us if you might be considering this destination for your celebration and want some help with the planning.

 

 

 

 

Why hire a wedding planner?

A wedding is a lifetime commitment; an exchange of vows; a bonding of families, a new beginning. It is a parent’s lifelong vision for their children and also a couple’s stepping-stone to a new life, new promises and their dreams.

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Planning a wedding however comes with a lot of stress, innumerous coordination, intense anxiety and a planning process that is very time consuming. Traditionally a wedding involved the support and input of the family and extended family members, keeping in mind the family traditions. Today, families have become more nuclear and more widespread. Brides and grooms are opting for newer ideas, interesting and novel concepts and new formats of styling a wedding. Latest entertainment ideas, innovative designs, trendy couture, varied cuisines, hi-tech decorations have become the vogue and nuance of today’s weddings. With the service and support of a professional wedding planner it is now possible to conduct lavish weddings, without the added stress.

Vendor management – including identification, consultation, coordination and negotiation:

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  1. Invitations design and printing and distribution (if needed by the family)
  2. Caterers including menu selection and planning
  3. Venue location/Identification including hotels, wedding halls as desired by the family.
  4. Decoration including flowers, mandap/wedding stage, hall and reception stage
  5. Favors and Gifts purchase, packing and decoration
  6. Bridal Makeup, Mehandi, Styling
  7. Trousseau and Personal shopping
  8. Photography – still and video. Before wedding and during ceremony
  9. Entertainment and Music – including hiring musicians, live singers/artists
  10. Lighting
  11. Transportation and logistics including vehicles and housing out of town guests
  12. Security and Valet Services. Permissions and Licenses
  13. Wedding Gift Registry

 

Our goal as wedding planners for our clients:

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  1. To take a couple’s vision and dream and turn it into reality without the added stress, by handling all the activities related to the wedding.
  2. To come up with innovative concepts, creative ideas and designs that work towards exceeding our client’s expectation.
  3. To work hard and leave all the details to us so that the family can relax and enjoy the wedding ceremonies.
  4. To source and to coordinate with the best vendors for our clients, using our experience and our contacts in the industry and not let them worry about looking for the right people for the wedding.
  5. To work with our clients in setting timelines and budgets so that we make the wedding a very successful event and help create that special memory for their family.

 

Questions to ask a Wedding Planner before you hire them:

Before selecting a wedding planner, it is important to know what questions to ask them. We have prepared a checklist of possible questions that we understand you may have and encourage you to read them before choosing a wedding planner. We have used our experience in wedding planning to answer some of them for you:

1) How do I identify a good wedding planner?

The wedding day is one of the most important days in a person’s life in any culture around the globe. A good wedding planner is one who is sensitive towards the needs of your family, understands your vision and has the ability to convert that vision into a dream come true event for you. They should have adequate resources at their disposal, the connections with the finest and most reliable vendors and the most hard working team whose main goal is to keep the event memorable for the families involved. Most importantly the family should feel extremely comfortable with the wedding planner and find the trust and confidence in them to conduct the events that are so personal to them. A good wedding planner is one who is sensitive towards these emotions and can work towards creating those lifelong memories by making the whole process seamless and stress free for the family.

2) What kind of packages do you offer?

Our involvement with the families is on a very personal basis. We do not offer packages because we feel every family’s requirement is unique and special. Therefore after understanding their needs we create a customized plan that works for them. We would much rather ask our clients what they need from us than hand them a predetermined check-list of services that leaves them with limited choices.

3) What responsibility would you take up?

We can take as much or as little responsibility as desired by our clients. Our expertise and experience lies in conducting every aspect of the wedding. From offering delectable cuisine to choosing spectacular venues or creating enthralling entertainment to designing stunning stage and floral decorations or taking impressive video and photography to mood photography, we can effortlessly lead our clients through the entire array of services that makes a wedding a resounding success.

4) Do you conduct only traditional Indian weddings?

We believe each wedding is unique and so we always customize the wedding according to the customs and needs of the families involved. We do plan and coordinate all types of wedding and wedding related events like engagement ceremony, sangeet (music), mehndi, and reception. We organize weddings of all faiths and cultures including Hindu, Church weddings, Nikah etc.

5) How do you keep up with the changing trends?

Our most important motivation in researching the trends of the wedding industry comes with our desire to exceed the expectations of our clients. Our team works very hard in keeping abreast of the latest trends by regularly staying in touch with the changing markets; shadowing the changes in fashion, styling, entertainment, technology, make up and all aspects of a modern wedding.

6) Do you work with preferred vendors or do comparison-shopping?

The requirement of every wedding is reflective of their family customs and traditions. Hence we plan our vendor selections based on those needs. Our industry wide contacts come in handy during this time and comparison-shopping in the best interest of our clients is conducted.

7) If I have hired the vendors do I still need a wedding planner?

Hiring vendors is just one part of the wedding and having a vendor arriving on time and in the right attire is a greater challenge. There are many aspects of a wedding that need attention. Having a single point of coordination with every aspect of the wedding makes the whole process smooth and tension free. A wedding planner can do just that.

8 ) Do you help in the budgeting process?

While we help our clients understand the costs involved in engaging in different wedding activities, we respect the budget the family has and work with them to keep the costs under control.

9) At what stage do you get involved?

Ideally we should be involved from the very first stage of planning a wedding. It makes the coordination and control of all activities more seamless. However we have also been involved in the midst of the planned wedding and can be as helpful to our clients. We help families from the time of the engagement ceremony to creating invitations, designing stage & decorations, helping the bride with her make up and couture selection, sangeet, mehandi, addressing special traditional customs, guest handling, logistics, catering, video and photography, honeymoon travels and any special requirements the bride and groom may have to make their dream day special.

10) How do you charge for your services?

Since we create only customized plans based on each family’s unique requirement, our fees also depend entirely on that. We strive to give our best services at the highest value to our clients.

11) What makes you different from others?

Our involvement with the family and being their friend, guide and leading hand during a very stressful but very important milestone of their life is our highest reward. For us this is not just a job but also a commitment in making dreams come true. We have a very hard working team and reliable vendor connections that make us strive for the flawless execution of the wedding with the sole purpose of fulfilling your dreams.

12) Do you help finding the venue for the wedding and reception especially for overseas clients?

Yes we most certainly do and have in the past conducted weddings for overseas clients.

13) Do you help designing personal wedding web sites?

Yes we have helped our clients in the past in creating and recording a memory of a personal wedding web site.

14) Are you available on site at the day of the wedding?

Both Divya and Vithika along with their well-trained team are available throughout the course of the wedding.

15) What activities are you involved in Pre-wedding planning?

We can be involved in all aspects of pre-wedding planning including pre-wedding grooming and engagement ceremony, designing, printing and distribution of invitation cards, conducting family dinners, music and dance including choreography, trousseau sourcing and selection to bridal wear. Today couples opt to consult unconventional but much needed experts like image consultants, pre-marital counselors, dental cosmetics experts, makeup artists, yoga and fitness experts, dieticians and nutritionists and we connect them to our clients as well.

How to maximize time with your Wedding Planner:

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The most important aspect of engaging a wedding planner is to seek someone with whom the bride and the groom are comfortable to share their dreams and their vision. For this purpose it is important for them to prepare and discuss a set of questions and concerns right away with the wedding planner. Coming up with clear goals helps in creating all the wedding events more productively.

The wedding planner will meet you at different stages of the planning, get to know you better and eventually will become our voice and leading hand for your dreams. They will be able to set clear timelines and help you with the budgeting process.  For this purpose transparency about budgets, expectations and concerns is absolutely necessary to create mutual understanding between the wedding planner and the families.

Planning a successful wedding takes tremendous amount of creativity, coordination and excellent multitasking ability. To best maximize your investment in a wedding planner, we suggest keeping the following in mind:

  1. Work in collaboration with the wedding planner to get the best results
  2. Be open and honest about your budget, timelines and expectations in terms of the events and activities to be organized.
  3. A great wedding planner always has the best interest of their clients in mind. Having trust and confidence in them is absolutely necessary. Spend time with them so they understand your needs completely.
  4. Ask a lot of questions to gauge the capability of the wedding planner in terms of their connections and relationships with vendors, ability to deal with timelines and budgets, how seasoned they are and how they can deal with crisis situations, their previous work and about their team.

 

Consultation and Execution:

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  1. Creation of concept, vision and event theme, color scheme and design
  2. Budgeting
  3. Vendor Identification, sourcing and recommendation
  4. Pre-Wedding planning checklist, detailing including Bridal Shower or parties
  5. Creation of Wedding day Checklist, Timeline and itinerary for the event
  6. Makeover and Etiquette consultation, Dietician and Nutritionist, Cosmetic Dental Consultation, Grooming tips, personal training, Spa Treatment
  7. Wedding day activities coordination and execution
  8. Destination Weddings
  9. Honeymoon Packaging and Travel Bookings
  10. Catering in India to both local and overseas clients